Losing a loved one is incredibly challenging, and each faith has a set of traditions to address the loss and celebrate the life of a loved one. This is a brief guide to understanding Catholic funeral practices. Learn more about how the catholic faith addresses mourning.
The Basics
There are important reasons to remember a loved one despite the pain. The Catholic faith is rich in tradition and generally holds a series of ceremonies to remember the life of the person they’ve lost. Before the funeral, Catholics may hold a wake or a rosary prayer to honor the departed.
The Catholic funeral rites have three separate services. These three parts, or rites, are the Vigil, the Liturgy, and the Committal. During these three services, Catholics will join in prayers centered around their belief in the afterlife and pray for the deceased’s soul.
Funeral Etiquette
When attending a Catholic funeral, guests should be somber and respectful. This tone means that a semi-formal dress attire is best for the occasion, with attendees wearing black suits and ties or dresses. If you don’t have black clothes available, you should aim for the darkest color in your wardrobe. While some women will wear hats, men should not wear hats to this ceremony. Flowers and cards are always appreciated and should fit the somber and respectful mood of the ceremony.
The Liturgy
The funeral Mass, or the Liturgy, is the central part of the Catholic funeral process. The Liturgy usually lasts for about an hour. It includes a reception, readings from the Bible, music, the Liturgy of the Eucharist, and a final farewell before the procession to Committal. During the Liturgy of the Eucharist, Catholics take communion, which means they will eat bread and drink wine as a part of the ritual tradition of their faith.
The etiquette around taking communion says that if you don’t believe in the presence of Christ in the eucharist, you shouldn’t take communion at this ceremony. That means that those who don’t believe that Christ himself is present in the communion wafers and wine shouldn’t eat or drink them. The mass will conclude with the procession to the Committal, which represents the journey of life.
The Committal
The Rite of Committal, also known as the burial or interment, is the conclusion of Catholic funerals. The funeral ends once you lay the deceased’s body in its resting place. The priest or deacon will generally pray as friends and family say their final farewells to their loved one.
After the Funeral
After the funeral, mourners will go through the process of grieving their loved one. They may need extra care and support from friends and family during this trying time. Do your best to be there for them as they have experienced profound loss. Now that you understand Catholic funeral practices, reach out to offer your support today.
